House Buying Regrets

Learn how to avoid having regrets about buying a house

How To Avoid Having Regrets About Buying a House


Buying a house is a huge decision and not one to rush. And it is not something you want to regret later…


Did you know that a survey showed that 1 in 4 buyers would not buyer the home they are in if they could do it again! Another survey showed that 52% regret something about their home or the home buying process.


Home buying can be hard because of the overwhelming amount of information and your emotions. The limited number of homes that fit your budget and criteria also puts pressure on you.


It does not matter if it’s your first house or the tenth, you do not want to regret buying a house!


Buyer regret can happen when buying anything! Regretting buying a home can be devastating since this is usually the biggest purchase you will ever make.


This is why it is important that you know how to avoid home buyer’s regret.  Here are some of the most important things to remember to prevent having any home buying regrets!


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It is possible that you understand or know a little bit about how buying a home works. Or you don’t completely understand the house buying process or the best way to begin.


The best way to prevent buyers regret is by having an experienced buyers agent on your side. Most experienced buyers agents will close more home sales in a month than the average person buys in their entire life!


Your buyer’s agent will be able to explain the house buying process. They can also recommend other professionals who you’ll need during the house buying process such as inspectors.


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Many people start looking at homes BEFORE they determine their budget. I would call this putting the cart before the horse…


An incredibly important first step is talking with a mortgage broker. It’s crucial that you get pre-approved before you go out looking at houses!


The main reason to get pre-approved before looking at houses is to ensure you’re able to get a mortgage. Mortgage brokers understand the constantly changing mortgage regulations and lenders requirements.


Your mortgage professional can help you understand how much cash you need for down payment and closing costs. Your lender should give you a closing cost estimate.


A closing cost estimate will explain your home buying costs and your approximate monthly mortgage payment. Obviously, this is an important way to avoid having buyer’s regret!


One common house buying regrets is using a small down payment. I know no money down sounds attractive but it may not be the best option for you in the long run. A small down payment means paying PMI or private mortgage insurance.


Also, you MUST remember all the other stuff that you must pay for when you own a home. Some common additional expenses are:

  • Insurance

  • Internet

  • Trash

  • Cable

  • Water

  • Electric

  • Gas

  • Cost to Commute

  • HOA Dues

  • Property Maintenance

  • Property Taxes


Your monthly housing budget should include the mortgage payment PLUS all the additional expenses. This will help reduce the chance you experience any buyers regret.



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ALWAYS remember your maximum price. Do not get caught up in the excitement and bite off more than you can chew. It is always better to NOT buy a home than to overpay!


Whether it is a bidding war or multiple offer situation does not matter. You have a budget and you must stick to it!


It is possible the bank will approve you for more than you should spend. I know this sounds crazy but the banks will lend some people more money than they should…


Don’t Let This Happen to You!



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Maybe you have found a home that is almost perfect. All you need to do is knock down a wall, add a window, build a new master suite, etc etc…


There is nothing wrong with having dreams about how you’d like to improve your home. Making home improvements takes time and money. If you lack time and money, you could soon regret buying a house!


Do not overestimate the renovations and repairs that you can safely do or afford. Rehabbing takes a toll on your bank account and on relationships as well.


The smart thing to do is to get some estimates before you make an offer. Most contractors offer free estimates that could help you avoid buying a home that you cannot afford to improve.


You must find out if there are any laws, rules or regulations that could prevent you from making any changes. This could mean talking to HOAs, Codes and Regulation Departments, Historic Districts, etc.


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One of the biggest causes of home buying regret is rushing the home search. Many buyers wonder how many homes should I look at?


There is no right or wrong answer to this question. According to NAR’s 2015 Profile of Buyers and Sellers, buyers search for 10 weeks and look at a median of 10 homes before finding “the one”.


But this is talking about average and statistics. It is possible that you could find the right house after just looking at a couple of houses.


Most hoem buyers know when they find “the one”. If you feel unsure after making an offer, you should remember to stay calm. Second guessing yourself can cause you to have buyers regret in the future.


Many home buyers will agree that once they found “the one”, it gave them a feeling that no other home did. Call it intuition or a gut feeling or whatever you want. But you will know when it is the one.


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You need to think about the future. How long do you intend to stay in the home? If the bedrooms are upstairs, will that cause a problem when you are older?


If there a possibility that you will need to move in the future, then you must consider a home’s resale value. Hope for the best but plan for the worst!


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You probably won’t ever find a house that is perfect. Consider this quote from my earlier article Thinking About Buying a Home:


One of the hardest things for some people to overcome is understanding the difference between what they want and what they need.


It’s possible to find a house that has everything you need. Finding a home with everything you want, at a price you can afford, can be difficult or impossible!


I suggest making 3 lists:





Some of the most common NEEDS you should consider:

  • Number of Bedrooms

  • Number of Full Bathrooms

  • Minimal Square Footage

  • Size of the Lot


Too few bedrooms or bathrooms is often a cause for regretting a home purchase. There may come a day that you need additional bedrooms or bathrooms!


If a home does not match your needs, I would strongly advise you to mark it off your list.  You risk regretting your decision if you do not stick to fulfilling your needs first.


What are some common wants?

  • Open Floor Plan

  • Updated

  • Style or Type of Home


What are some things that could make you say “Oh Hell No”?

  • Location

  • School District

  • Unique Features


Figuring out the wants and the needs BEFORE you start looking at homes is a great time saver. Plus this is a great way to prevent home buying regrets later on!


Knowing your wants and needs means your agent will be able to find more homes that suit your unique criteria!


Unique features such as a pool or a shop can either be good or bad depending on the buyer. These features will affect how much you enjoy the home and how attractive the home is when/if you need to sell.


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You want to avoid buying a home that is too small as being cramped will cause you regret. Since a larger home is more expensive to buy and own, it can also cause you to regret buying a home.


You must decide what size home is best for your lifestyle and budget to avoid any home buyer’s remorse!


Another size that matters is the size of the lot. A larger yard means time or money must be spent on yard work.


You must decide what size home and lot is best for you, your lifestyle and budget!


house home buy buying location importance


“Location, Location, Location,” may seem like an overused expression but it is absolutely true. You must consider the importance of location when buying a home!


You can change, update or improve many things about a house. But you can never change the location!


Don’t let the awesomeness of a home is cause you to ignore the location! Do some research and investigate the neighborhood. I suggest visiting the neighborhood at different times. Drive by the home at different times and if possible, both during the week and on the weekend.


You should try to talk to some of the neighbors if you can. While you cannot trust everything you are told, you can find out more by talking to the people that live nearby.


One thing that your buyers agent cannot do is tell you about crime or any sexual predators living nearby. This has to do with some of the laws that agent must obey. Sounds crazy but it has to do with violating the rights of someone...


Home buyers MUST do their own research about crime and search the sex offender registry. Do a quick internet search to make sure there is not anything that concerns you!


One question to research is how far is it to shopping, medical facilities, and your work or business. If your commute takes too much time it means missing stuff that is more important to you!


Some things to consider when looking at a home’s location include:

  • Busy Roads or Railroad Tracks Nearby

  • Distance to Work and Shopping

  • School District

  • Nuisances Such as Chicken Houses or Manufacturing

  • Neighboring Properties Style, Upkeep, Type


Remember that traffic varies greatly during the day and from one day to the next. The noise from traffic as well as the safety concerns should never be overlooked!


If you ignore potential problems about the location, you could find yourself with a case of buyers regret!


Suggested reading:  Finding The Right Location When Buying A Home


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Finding the right property is only part of preventing house buying regrets. Writing an offer correctly is also essential!


The internet has made finding homes for sale much easier than years ago. You can even find lots of information about the house buying process also.


But that does NOT take the place of having the experience and knowledge to write an offer that is the total package!


Your buyers agent should be looking out for your best interests when writing an offer. When you have decided to make an offer, make sure your agent helps you understand the offer.


A good offer protects you by getting you the best price, terms, contingencies, conditions, costs, dates, etc.


Your buyers agent should explain in detail what you’re signing and what it means. There are ways to write a contract that will help to protect a home buyer.


Every home is different, every buyer is different and every offer is different. Your agent will be able to take all the various factors into consideration when writing an offer for you.


If the listing agent writes an offer for you, it is highly unlikely that your offer is in your best interests! The price may be correct but there is much more than the price to consider!


ask home house buy buying questions


Some people are embarrassed to ask questions about the home buying process. Answering your questions and education is part of your buyers agent's job!


Neglecting to ask questions almost guarantees a case of home buyer regret later on! If your Realtor doesn’t know the answer, they can suggest the appropriate professional that does.



house home buy buying regrets remorse conclusion


House buying regret is too common in real estate. The good news is you should be able to avoid experiencing home buying regret if you think about this advice!


The most important tip is to pick an experienced buyers agent to help you with buying a home. If you are buying a house in the Anderson SC area and want to avoid experiencing buyers regret, contact me!


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